Just some observations...

Those with low IQ must make up with it with high decibel levels.

If you think to yourself that this might be stupid question and are afraid to ask it out loud, then it's probably OK to ask it.  Stupid people don't have that type of discernment. 

You can't make something work, that you don't want to work.


If you don't like it, what are you doing to change it?  And if you can't change it, how are you changing how you think about it?

Anything worth having is worth fighting for.  If it comes easy, it's probably not worth anything.